Tuesday, March 10, 2015

The Father, the Prodigal, and the Good Son





The Father, the Prodigal, and the Good Son


Written by Dan McDonald


 


            The fifteenth chapter of St. Luke’s Gospel is surely one of Christendom’s favorite Bible chapters. The parables of the lost coin, lost sheep, and the prodigal son are all found in this one chapter. I have been reading Maggi Dawn’s Lenten devotional Giving it up and her meditations on this passage within that Lenten devotional have led me to think more about this wonderful passage.

            I think Maggi Dawn pretty much perfectly describes what Jesus was doing in telling these parables to the Pharisees and scribes. She writes; “This is a sequence of stories that takes the Pharisees’ and scribes’ idea of what a religious person ought to be like, and turns it around to ask instead what is God like.”[i] That sums up the chapter perfectly. I think we often have to have our thinking about religion turned around so that instead of focusing on what we ought to be like if we are religious people; that we really need to have our thinking refocused to see what God is truly like toward us. The reality is that there is always more for us to do, to learn, to be, in regards with our seeking to be godly persons. We most need to realize what God is like toward us. He truly is good as our creator. He is also good as the one who desires that all men and women should be redeemed and brought near unto him. A prayer that I once questioned in the Book of Common Prayer is now a prayer that I realize does sum up very well God’s desire for us. The prayer in the Book of Common Prayer says, “We are not worthy so much as to gather up the crumbs under Thy table. But thou art the same Lord, whose property is always to have mercy:”[ii] That was what Jesus was seeking to teach the Pharisees and the scribes. In their mind, only a certain group of people who had kept the right way of life could expect to be viewed by God as good. But Jesus tells how a woman who has lost a valuable coin will seek it all day long until she finds it, how a good shepherd who has one sheep that gets separated from the flock will seek it. Finally he speaks of how a Father with two sons will not be satisfied with just one son sharing in the life and joy of the family.

            The story of the prodigal son reminds me of a story I once heard when I was a tourist visiting Russia. The story revolved around a man who had lived a sinful life. He then had a near death experience. He was clinically dead. His soul descended downwards because he had lived a bad life. But then much to his surprise instead of being punished, the devil and the demons took him partying. He was realizing this wasn’t at all how he had expected things to be. Then the doctors above revived the man and his soul returned to earth. He now didn’t mind if he was going downward when he died and if anything he lived more selfish than before. He then died, this time for real. This time the Devil turned him over to the demons and they started tormenting him. He protested, crying out, “Hey don’t you remember me how we partied the time I came before.” A demon replied, “Then you were a tourist, now you are an immigrant.” That is what the Prodigal found out about life in the country he went to. When he had money as a tourist he could live it up. But when the money was gone, he was an immigrant living at the bottom rung of existence as an outsider in society. He was feeding the hogs, wishing he could eat as well as the hogs which had their fill of pellets while he went to bed at night without enough to meet his daily needs.

 

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            It was as he fed those hogs that he remembered how good his father treated his servants. He felt he could not go back to his father expecting to be treated as a son. He was no longer worthy of gathering crumbs beneath his father’s table. But maybe he could be a servant, a hired hand. He began to make his way back towards his father’s house.

As he neared the property his father saw him. One wonders how often his father must have wondered if he would ever see the long lost son again. The father, upon seeing him runs out to greet him, and orders a lavish banquet to celebrate his son’s return.

            The older brother becomes upset. He remains in a field outside of the house and refuses to join the celebration. He complains that his father never threw a lavish banquet for him. He had given up everything to stay with his father, to be the good son. But now the returning prodigal gets special treatment. This is once more, where Maggi Dawn makes a wonderful observation. She points out that upon hearing how the older brother refused to come in, the father went to the field to meet the older brother and to ask him to come in and celebrate; to ask him what was wrong and to encourage him to put away his anger. Just as the father had run to the prodigal son, he now runs also to the field to meet the elder brother who grumbles at his father's kindness to his brother.

            I wonder if the Pharisees realized where Jesus took them in this parable of the older brother and the Prodigal. They were Old Testament experts. They were taken to a field of a story of an older and younger brother. The older brother was angry. His brother’s sacrifice had pleased God, and God said something was missing in regards to his sacrifice. Cain was in the field when God urged him to set aside his anger. The older brother did not feel God’s love. He had complained about what he had given up all these years while being in his father’s presence. Beneath all his self-righteousness there was this feeling that he wished he would not have had to make so many sacrifices for his father. But something else was also wrong. He did not understand his father’s love for his children. He did not understand that his father could not be happy if only one son returned home. If he had understood his father’s love for him, he would have been happy for his father seeing his son return home. He would have understood that one cannot fully love the father, without also realizing his father’s love of his sons. In essence, Jesus was reaching out to the Pharisees and scribes as if God were speaking to them as the older brother and saying, “Won’t you come home also?” In essence, Jesus was showing them and us that he was the true elder brother, the beloved son of his Father. He is the one who had seen his Father’s perfect love and had perfectly reflected that same love in his own being; showing the fullness of the Father’s love for all his sons, and for his daughters and for his very good creation.

 






[i] Maggi Dawn. Giving it up (The Bible Reading Fellowship, 2009) p. 93.


[ii] 1928 Book of Common Prayer, New York, Oxford University Press. P.82

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